Comments on: Will Truth Reward Me?

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By: Kerstin

Kerstin — Sun, 21 May 2006 15:35:51 +0000

Without knowing any of the details it sounds to me like that person is simply not going to change. Nor grow up. Nor face up to their own responsibilies. Because of their affiliation with you they are not so easy to walk away from.
But from the far distance my decision would be clear: I would walk. Close the door. There is nothing left in that room for you to say or do. You need to move on and look after yourself and your own life.
If that person choses to open the door again then at least you know that you will be far away enough to not get caught in any door slamming. But not too far to reach out a hand, again, if you wanted to.
Whatever you do, Christine, don’t let it upset you too much. You are such an incredible person and artist, nobody can ever take that away from you.

By: Marilyn

Marilyn — Sat, 20 May 2006 10:58:12 +0000

Great analogy–about being plunked in the forehead by mean communication…only sometimes I don’t realize I’ve been plunked until I feel that knot start to rise…(Hey! Wait a minute!…) As cliche as it is, for ME, the most important thing I try to remember when I’m struggling through times like you’ve described is to LET GO. We can’t control anyone else’s actions and choices…but even so, it can be so hard to just LET GO in those moments. Wishing you a peaceful release from the upsetting emotions (once you’ve processed them, of course).

By: MARYBETH

MARYBETH — Fri, 19 May 2006 16:25:03 +0000

handing you a large ice pack for the goose egg on your head~ we all have at least one relationship in our life that stretch the very fibers that hold us together to their limits. You clearly have a good perspective on all the actions which will provide boundries for you. ITs not fun, its uncomfortable, but it is necesary.

By: melissa

melissa — Fri, 19 May 2006 16:18:03 +0000

Oh honey, I’m sorry you have to continually deal with this. By being the bigger person in this, you will be rewarded…I truly believe that. If you choose to engage in a battle then no one wins. You are a great person…don’t let anyone tell you any different. Know you are loved! XOXOXO

By: Kate

Kate — Fri, 19 May 2006 14:59:57 +0000

Sending you electronic hugs…you’ll make it! Remembering the choices is half the battle.
xo

By: la vie en rose

la vie en rose — Fri, 19 May 2006 11:42:48 +0000

i am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing pain and grief right now. the wisdom of your life is reveal in this post and i thank you for offering it your readers. yes, there are always choices…and it seems that hope lies in the choices.

By: tali

tali — Fri, 19 May 2006 09:51:37 +0000

Man, I can identify with this. Recently, my co-worker did something similar, and I decided to make the choice to not be involved with her. Since we’re a small office, I obviously have to have some contact with her, but I have now limited it. Life is difficult enough without having difficult forces in our life. Now if only I can just choose not to take it personally.

By: Lucille

Lucille — Fri, 19 May 2006 07:49:13 +0000

It is hard to make those choices, to not let someone else’s behavior affect our own. I am dealing with the same dynamic in my relationship. Every time I get sucked in and react the way I always do, I want to kick myself in the ass. Because I know better. But… Every day is a new chance to try again, to act with integrity, to detach… OH SO HARD!!! I wish you the best.

By: Alexandra

Alexandra — Fri, 19 May 2006 06:59:51 +0000

Its so hard when you are at a place where you want to move on with what didn’t work in the relationship and the other is stuck in a venomous place and wants to keep hurling stones. Don’t you wish this person could trulu embrace that today is a NEW DAY and create something new in the relationship? So sorry you are having to deal with it in this way when it seems clear you were good and ready to go forward and create something better together. Hang in there!