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Creating a Home

December 5, 2006

I am writing from an area close to Raleigh, NC helping my best friend get moved and settled into her brand new home.  I landed very early Saturday morning after taking a blissfully empty red eye flight from LA and we immediately went to work.  Unpacking, cleaning, organizing packing materials and boxes for recycling, putting away dishes, linens, photo albums and toiletries.  Mundane work on the surface, but filled with so much meaning as I think of what a treat it is to help this dear friend of mine turn an empty space into her own dreamy nest.

We all give of ourselves to the world – especially those closest to us – in a variety of ways.  Different people and circumstances call upon us to provide different types of support, and often times it is the tiniest of things that make the most difference throughout the struggles, changes, celebrations, heartaches and victories we all experience during our lives.  Many times it is nothing more than sending a card or even a small email saying, "How are you doing?" that gives someone that little bit of support they need to make it through the day.  Right now my friend is moving into her new home, and after having moved a bazillion times over the years, this is something I have a bizarre gift for, and I am so happy I have this to offer her.  The strangest things sometimes turn out to be the most valuable things to someone, somewhere along the line.  And in between those tasks, to do lists and "helpful things" we all do for each other, there are the quiet conversations over a glass of wine, the hysterical laughter looking at old pictures from backpacking trips through Europe and the just-about-to-fall-asleep moments when you realize you are not alone in the world and you are, in fact, very deeply loved.


5 Comments on Creating a Home

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  1. yes, yes, yes! i know when i was going through my divorce it was the little things, like inviting me to dinner or a movie, that really helped. it was wonderful having friends to cry to but it was just as important to have those little things too.

  2. kelly says:

    my best friend and i are true opposites. our views of politics, family, and careers
    are very different. yet put us in a room together and you would never know that. she
    was given to me so that i would laugh at myself more….small blessings

  3. liz elayne says:

    the truth of what you have said here is inviting tears in my sleepy eyes and heart. in a good way. because you get the beauty of it all. (thank you)

  4. melissa says:

    THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! I really don’t think I would have gotten anything done if you weren’t here. It was so great to have you share in our first few nights in our new home. Even though you left, Allie is still looking for you in your room and we officially call your room “Christine’s Room”. I can’t wait for you to come back for a visit where we can really just enjoy the view..and the company!! Love you bunches….M

  5. Alexandra says:

    What a treasure of a friend you are to fly across the country to help a friend with a move! Not surprising from what I know of you but still, a reminder how precious friendship is and how blessed those of us are who have friends like you who go the extra mile, or in this case, the extra thousands of miles!

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